Season 2, Episode 7: My Wife Said You May Want to Marry Me: Embracing Life After Loss with Jason Rosenthal
On 3rd March 2017, a few days before she passed away from ovarian cancer, Amy Krouse Rosenthal wrote a piece titled “You May Want to Marry My Husband” for the New York Times’s Modern Love column. It was Amy's final piece of writing: a love letter in a form of a dating profile — a gift to her husband, Jason Rosenthal, that, at the very end, gave him permission to live life without her. Her letter went viral with over 5 million people reading it.
I met with Jason Rosenthal on 14th February to talk about his grief journey almost exactly 8 years after Amy's death to talk about a memoir which he had written in response to his late wife's letter:
“My Wife Said You May Want to Marry Me”
The memoir gives readers an intimate look into the couple’s marriage and family, her death, and Rosenthal’s life without her.
This is a story about giving permission to live, the ultimate act of love.
In this episode, Jason shares his personal story of losing his wife, and how her viral essay "You May Want to Marry My Husband" changed his life.
Key topics discussed:
- Amy's final gift of permission to move forward
- The challenges of caring for a terminally ill partner
- The importance of community support in grief
- Finding resilience and joy after loss
- Navigating new relationships while honouring past love
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Guest's Bio:
Jason B. Rosenthal is an author, foundation Board Chair, public speaker and lawyer who retrained to be a social worker and is now working therapeutically with grieving individuals. He is also the subject of an essay written by his wife, Amy Krouse Rosenthal, called You May Want to Marry My Husband that went viral and was read by millions of readers worldwide. His first book, written in collaboration with his daughter Paris called Dear Boy, debuted on the New York Times Bestseller list at #1. His response to Amy’s piece titled, My Wife Said You May Want to Marry Me was published in 2018.
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